Thursday, September 27, 2012


Unconventional Marriage
Verses for Ayah, my philo.

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Warrior-
adjective
that perfectly describes us a couple.

We were born having differences in
nature
And
nurtured
differently within social structure.

However, opposites attract
as they say.
Indeed, it’s true, isn’t it?
We are complimentary
like
coffee and
its
creamer.
We
blend perfectly.
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We are courageous enough
to be married
in a very
unconventional way.
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We deemed each other as a
couple
long before we were officially on
as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Then the decision to get married came.
Then the realization of our plan,
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It’s not easy.
Having no
Parental support and
High-paying  job.

But what else we could do?
We
want to pursue our plan.
are driven by our desire.
have to make money using our skills.
spend and live each day below our income.
learn to value every centavo .

No more
coffee shop.
buying of new books.
dining-out.
And we lessen our outdoor activities.
We settled for street and home-cooked foods.
I am proud that every centavo that
we spend in our wedding
is our hard-earned money.

We have the unconventional setting.
We don’t
live under one roof
sleep together
eat together
see each other everyday or anytime we want.

We don’t mind getting married despite
the fact that anytime soon,
we will be away from each other
I have to fulfill
my dream
in foreign land.
I will be leaving.
I’m doing this fora
myself
you
and to our future child.

Don’t worry, we would be together one day
perhaps here
or
in foreign land.

This is not a conventional way of getting married
but this is our choice.
Let’s face the future together, Ayah.
g
u,
Ibu